Sometimes words linger longer than the moment in which they are spoken. I am still thinking about what was said. Many of us witnessed this week some cruel comments made by President Trump after the passing of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele Singer Reiner, and it created a great deal of public discourse. Several people had a lot to say about this, and honestly, I must say I was wowed. I mean, who comments so hatefully, especially during Christmastime and Advent? A time when we should be bringing hope and honor to Christ, the Light of the world. It feels far from the light of Christ to share unkind words during a time created for joy and togetherness.
When we witness such events in the world, it reminds us that life is always both/and. The holidays for many are both/and. They are not always happy, happy, joy, joy! Even then, with the hard things, we are invited to draw close to God in ways that can lighten our hearts. High holidays like Christmas offer consistent reminders that God’s love, light, and encouragement are always available to us. God is with us! God is with us when it is good, and God is with us when it hurts. When it hurts and when it is hard is when God is closest, and we are invited to lean in toward the comfort that Christ brings. We can rest knowing that God’s presence is gentle and constant, bringing hope and light into every part of our lives, especially during our most complicated times of celebration.
Therefore, what should we do when the hard thing is directed at us or is something we witness from afar that hurts others? The tempting thing would be to respond with reflective reactionary anger and/or to build walls around our hearts to protect ourselves. But Christ offers another way, one that honors them and us. The Bible says, “love your neighbor as yourself”- Mark 12:31. What this verse means is that before you can love them, you have to love on you. Loving on you nurtures the well within, and from that well, you can then make space to extend love and grace to others.
As we walk through these holy-days, here are a few gentle possibilities we can engage to nurture our spirits and open our hearts to what God offers.
1. We Can Turn to God’s Word
Allowing the scriptures to speak life into our day. When we read the Bible, it centers our spirits again and reminds us that God is nigh, bringing peace to places that feel disturbed.
2. We Can Remember to Pray
A prayer can be as simple as “God help me” or “God touch this place.” God hears every word. Remember a simple prayer has great power.
3. We Can Welcome Small Joys
A comforting hymn, a good friend, fresh air, a peaceful corner, or a warm cup in your hands can lift your heart and take the edge off. God often meets us through small delights.
So, for now, please take care of yourself. The world is in a pickle, and we have a bit of a way to go. Life is both/and, and if we plan on making it, the way forward will emerge through the ways we love ourselves well so that we can love others well. Take care of your mind, body, and spirit, and take care of the communities you love and the communities that love you. We will get there.
Looking Toward The One Who Lights The Way,
Rev. Tam
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